hot springs travel

What is a bath house and is it creepy? I have to admit the concept of a bath house freaked me out at first.  I imagined a Romanesque giant steamy tub filled with hedonistic weirdos – pretty much a giant orgy party (as if I had any idea what one of those would look like).  So when my relatively new boyfriend suggested we go and said he’d been going for years, I took a step